Lucy Forster and Louise Martin |
Gurudev and Pavitra Lazarus |
Laurie Harding |
Andrew and Stella Laird |
Sajith and Maryen Peiris |
Laurie Harding and Peter Mullarky |
Peter Newell |
Celebrating Christmas the traditional way |
Bro. President wearing the formal Presidential Hat |
Crawley in the 19th Century |
A pig race in progress |
"What do you mean No. 5 won?" |
Helen Pettingel (nee Jordan) and Iris Jordan present the Barry Jordan Trophy to Barry Prior of Haywards Heath Circle |
Helen presents the Michael Lydon trophy to Jim Fitzpatrick of East Grinstead Circle |
Peter Mullarky, Jim Fitzpatrick, Mike Newman, Damon Holliday |
Memorial to Francis Scawen Blunt |
A few years ago Hallowe’en wasn’t any big deal and apart from the party shops and newsagents, it didn’t make that huge a retail impact. Now plastic pumpkins, zombie costumes and ghoulish recipes abound in every store from M&S to the supermarkets. And probably the pet shops too – I haven’t been in one recently but I daresay I could find my cocker spaniel a trick ‘n’ treat pack and a fetching devil horn headband with matching tail piece.
“So what?” might be your reaction. “It’s a bit of fun for the children and a chance to dress up and have a party. No-one takes the devilish side of it seriously.” Somehow I suspect that therein lies the danger. The things we don’t take seriously might be exactly those that give the Evil One a foot in the door.
In any case, it seems to me that at this time of year we Catholics can often miss the opportunity to have a positive celebration, rather than a not-taking-it-seriously one. “Hallowe’en”, of course, means “All Hallows' Eve” (i.e. the eve of All Saints' Day) and originates from the Church’s taking over a pagan festival and reinterpreting it in the light of its own liturgical calendar. We celebrate the Christian way of relating to the dead, so that rather than lighting fires and wearing scary masks to scare off earthbound spirits, we venerate our brothers and sisters who provided us with examples of Christian living when on earth and who are now with God in Heaven and ready to assist us with their prayers. The forces of evil are hardly anything to celebrate, but the assistance and example of the Saints definitely are. So why celebrate the former when we can celebrate the latter? If we think the ghouls and ghosties are more fun, maybe that indicates that some soul-searching and meditative prayer is in order...?!
The great advantage of partying in honour of All Hallows' Eve rather than Hallowe’en is that it gives us the opportunity to provide our children, or grandchildren, with some painless and enjoyable catechesis. As the performers of medieval mystery plays and designers of magnificent stained glass windows knew, the visual and dramatic are excellent learning tools, particularly for the illiterate (in those days) or the young. What better way of getting children to learn about this great feast of the Church, find out about a variety of Saints and perhaps begin to think about why it’s good to dress up as holy people rather than vampires as some of their friends might be doing...?
For young and old alike, this is a fun way of witnessing to the world about our faith. I would like to commend the “All Hallows in Horsham” party being held at St John’s Catholic Church in Horsham on Sunday 30 October, thanks to an intrepid lady named Celia and her band of helpers. There will be pumpkins, treats, lots of the traditional games and a costume parade, but the dressing-up will be strictly on the theme of saints not spooks. Some fab outfits were worn to last year’s party: much more impressive than your average dripping-with-blood-and-gore get-up! (The photo shows St Lucy, aka your Vice-President's wife, with party organiser St Therese of Lisieux - the aforementioned Celia. The children all looked much more impressive than we did though!) Parishioners can find details in the church newsletter.
Go over to "Five Feet Above Sea Level" to read an excellent posting by Katherine, one of Celia’s team, on the subject of Hallowe’en. And have a very happy All Hallows!
A corner of the office |
Thankfully both we and our Nissan Altima Coupe survived the week intact. It took a while to get used to the initially confusing road sign and numbering system, the ability to turn right on a red light and the habitual lethargic pace of traffic on most of the roads.
Only once during the week did I regret not ticking the GPS rental option - when we looked for and unfortunately, and inexplicably, couldn’t find Harpers Ferry, despite repeated frustrating attempts. Fuel in the USA is an amazing 50p per litre but our 2.5litre V6 automatic made every attempt to guzzle as much fuel as it could even at the slow moving pace, often due to the air conditioning necessitated by the 80 degree Fahrenheit temperatures. Washington was a nightmare of one way streets and poor directions. We never did find the well sign posted visitors information centre having circumnavigated its supposed location repeatedly from all possible directions, but only once got caught in the apparently infamous commuter traffic that explodes out of the city every evening at a snails pace.
The players assembling for Niblick 2011 |
A. Pinder presenting the Niblick to the winner, P. Gidman |
B. Sparks the guest winner |
John Maher presenting the Pat McDermott Trophy to Francis Benham |
Jim in the Grotto |
Wow! What a roof! |
Bro. President gets some ideas for his next tie |
Bro. Peter shows off his German translation skills |
Meeting our guide |
Counting the historical errors made by the guide |
Too hot to handle? Maria and the world's first fire door |
"Where do they keep the jewels?" Anneli explores the Jewel Tower |
Recovering from the exertions of climbing the Jewel Tower |
Rookwood Golf Course |
Whatever you may have read to the contrary, and despite the faults and flaws of the fallen human beings who belong to it, the Catholic Church is alive, well and thriving! Lay organisations like the Catenians are a great sign of the activity of the Holy Spirit in the Church and it’s good to know there are many such movements out there, each with their own charism and particular area of ministry.
One movement that has a good deal in common with the Catenians is Equipes Notre Dame (“Teams of Our Lady”). It’s an international organisation known in Britain as Teams GB and exists to support married couples as they live out the sacrament of matrimony with all its implications. Catholic in origin but by no means exclusively Catholic in membership, Teams was started in France in the 1940’s by Fr Caffarel and has flourished so much that there are now 10,000 Teams across the world with over 100 in Britain. Just over a year ago Fr Terry Martin, parish priest of St John’s, founded a Team in Horsham – known, logically enough, as Horsham 1 – to which Edek and myself belong.
The “Teams method” of living out married spirituality consists of attending monthly meetings and of following a flexible rule of life on a daily basis. At the meetings four or five couples meet together with a chaplain to eat, share the highs and lows of their lives, pray, read Scripture and study a spiritual topic. The meetings are relaxed and joyful affairs in which we experience support and spiritual sustenance alongside friendship and, inevitably, loads of laughter! The rule of life consists of a set of “Endeavours”: essentially encouragements to help us pray and read Scripture daily and sit down regularly with our spouse to really talk.
I can’t over-emphasise how valuable Edek and I have found Teams GB. Marriage is as much a path to personal sanctity as the religious or clerical life and it’s good to be reminded of that and helped in our efforts. Marriage and family life are enormous blessings but we all know they ain’t always easy! I do feel that the Teams movement has loads in common with the Catenian Association – they are kindred spirits in that both share the aims of “strengthening family life through friendship and faith”. Our witness to the love of God as expressed in the commitment of marriage is much needed in a world that often has difficulty understanding either.
Sadly, as Fr Terry moves on from his post as Horsham’s parish priest, he is also unable to continue being Horsham 1’s chaplain and so we have a vacancy to fill... Last night he attended his last Team meeting and here you can see him with the Holy Family icon we presented to him as a token of our (very great) appreciation.
You can find out more about Teams GB at their website, www.teamsgb.org.uk.